Mary Lois Timbes Adshead has worked in the theatre and on television, and had a career in journalism, and in public relations for clients in the fashion industry. She has written nonfiction books, novels, and, at age 85, writes witty and serious columns on the Internet, based on the many facets of her amazingly varied life—offering inspiration to younger men and women looking to re-create their next chapters.
Mary Lois's journey started in Fairhope, Alabama, a unique utopian town that taught her unconventional wisdom and gave her the confidence to pursue unique paths. Her education at the School of Organic Education shaped her distinct outlook on life, and her love for theater led her to explore a myriad of experiences.
From co-founding two stage companies to working as a journalist for Fairchild Publications’ menswear daily newspaper, from learning acting under the tutelage of Lee Strasberg to starting a theater in Geneva, she has seen and done it all. All the while she was writing stories which she saved in cartons, boxes, and filing cabinets.
In the late '80s, she returned to her childhood home and delved into documenting local history, writing books about Fairhope (That Was Tomorrow and The Fair Hope of Heaven), and running the Jubilee Fish Theatre Company, an Equity theater that existed on a shoestring budget. Later, she moved to Hoboken and drenched herself in its vibrant history, blogging about it regularly. The aftermath of Hurricane Sandy in 2012 nudged her to move closer to her family in Kingston, New York, where she is now based.
Her love for writing has led to her latest release Travelin' Light, her collection of 'revised memories.' Written under her nom de plume Timbes, these stories are reflections of women taking charge of their own lives in New York City in the mid-20th century, offering a fresh, slightly wry voice imbued with a Southern lilt.
Despite the changing times and her own life's twists and turns, Mary Lois continues to be an enthusiastic participant in life—and a force to be reckoned with. Despite being more than eight decades young, Mary Lois continues to shape her own narrative, reminding us all that it's never too late to come of age.


